For many generations, Native American communities have also lived by the African proverb, “It takes a village to raise a child.” This traditional concept encouraged tribal families to respect and carry on the Native teachings from generation to generation. Kinship was strong and the interdependence within the community resulted in children interacting with grandparents and extended family members. Relatives often became the most important people in the children’s lives so they would learn to model and imitate their behaviors.

As the Native American history transformed the traditional Native way of life, it heavily impacted family life. As parent educators, if we understand how historical moments affected the sacred bond families carried from generation to generation, we may assist families to strengthen their involvement with their children.

As we move into the new year, it is important to reflect on the many Native home-based families who may not feel ready to be empowered. Establishing a partnership with parents is one of the most important key areas when working with families.

Some ideas to interest families:

1. Reflect on the family goals they achieved since the beginning of the school year. Celebrate by acknowledging their achievements with them.
2. Assist the family with fresh ideas for the new year.
3. Listen to their concerns and the obstacles they are challenged with and offer resources.
4. Provide options when scheduling personal visits.

The partnership opens many opportunities for the parents to learn about how to become more engaged as a family. Each unique family that enrolls into a FACE Program come with their own goals, ideas, challenges, and most importantly, their own values. Sometimes, families may not realize the many opportunities that may exist for them in their own communities. Many Native families live in remote communities, which often gives the perspective they must go to a nearby town to do activities.

Some ideas to do as a family in Native communities!

1. Learn about the historical marks in the communities. Visit grandparents, elders, or local cultural centers to learn of the stories, songs, and how to pronounce some Native terms. Visit some appropriate locations as a family. Venture out with the family & pack a lunch!
2. Participate in the local pow wows, social dances, or winter games! Look through the tribal newspapers, browse through the community boards, or visit the local cultural centers for a list of upcoming activities. Introducing cultural activities to young children may interest their participation and willingness to learn their own tribal language.
3. Enroll in local community classes or arts & craft sessions as a family! Many local community centers offer fun cultural classes for the whole family to participate in. Learn your tribal language, how to sew the traditional dress, or local herbal plants that exist in your area, and so much more!
4. Contact local schools to ask about library services and if community members can check out books or videos.

When the whole family begins to engage together, many positive outcomes occur. Families become stronger and more empowered. Parents learn to problem solve with parent educators, then gain the confidence to make decisions for their own families. Positive parenting behaviors are demonstrated when parents interact with their children during home-visits. A long-lasting effect occurs in the family’s well-being.